Would this be too soon to ask her back out?

[the_stig]

Had an amazing first date last night, haven't had that much chemistry with a girl in a very long time. We got drinks, went back to her place, watched a movie and fooled around. Her IL is very high; all over me, kept telling me how much fun she was having, how handsome I am, etc. I was in control all night and led nicely.

We agreed on an idea for a second date, but didn't set a date. Looking at my schedule today, I realized Mon and Tues of this week are my only free days until next week. I'd like to strike while the iron is hot, and was thinking about calling her tonight and telling her its a busy week and those are the only two days I can squeeze her in. Would that be too much too soon, or an acceptable move?

 

[Chickfight]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2y40bVp2Ps

 

[Tiguere]

If what you are telling us is true she will gladly make time flr you either monday or tuesday.

If she is spinnning plates then its a 50/50 chance. Call her later on .

 

[HariPoter13]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2y40bVp2Ps

Hahahaha excellent reply

 

[Szyzzlin]

You went out Sat and you want to take her out again Mon/Tues??? Don't do it man. Women fall in love with you when they are away from you. Not when they are with you. Don't give her too much of your attention. She will fall harder.

 

[the_stig]

Met her off POF, and the spark tends to fade very quickly from that site.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

You went out Sat and you want to take her out again Mon/Tues??? Don't do it man. Women fall in love with you when they are away from you. Not when they are with you. Don't give her too much of your attention. She will fall harder.

Not saying you are Szyzzlin, but this is a total keyboard jockey response. Every situation is unique and that's how you should base how to proceed, not following a strict guideline or formula. If you need to rely on things like that, you will eventually been figured out as a fraud by the girl when you over-react to a situation later down the road.

To the OP, if her interest is high, she will make time. If she truly can't make either day, then she will be anxious to see you early next week.

Hit her up, don't sweat it, you are in a good position. However do not make this a habit until you fuvk her in the future.






PIMP

 

[HappyHarryHardon]

go for it i say. if she can't and really does like you she'll offer another day (happened to me a few times) but after the second date lay off for at least a week with no contact as well. let her contact after that.