"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would this be too soon to ask her back out?

the_stig

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Had an amazing first date last night, haven't had that much chemistry with a girl in a very long time. We got drinks, went back to her place, watched a movie and fooled around. Her IL is very high; all over me, kept telling me how much fun she was having, how handsome I am, etc. I was in control all night and led nicely.

We agreed on an idea for a second date, but didn't set a date. Looking at my schedule today, I realized Mon and Tues of this week are my only free days until next week. I'd like to strike while the iron is hot, and was thinking about calling her tonight and telling her its a busy week and those are the only two days I can squeeze her in. Would that be too much too soon, or an acceptable move?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tiguere

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If what you are telling us is true she will gladly make time flr you either monday or tuesday.

If she is spinnning plates then its a 50/50 chance. Call her later on .
 

Szyzzlin

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You went out Sat and you want to take her out again Mon/Tues??? Don't do it man. Women fall in love with you when they are away from you. Not when they are with you. Don't give her too much of your attention. She will fall harder.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pimp-sicle

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Szyzzlin said:
You went out Sat and you want to take her out again Mon/Tues??? Don't do it man. Women fall in love with you when they are away from you. Not when they are with you. Don't give her too much of your attention. She will fall harder.
Not saying you are Szyzzlin, but this is a total keyboard jockey response. Every situation is unique and that's how you should base how to proceed, not following a strict guideline or formula. If you need to rely on things like that, you will eventually been figured out as a fraud by the girl when you over-react to a situation later down the road.

To the OP, if her interest is high, she will make time. If she truly can't make either day, then she will be anxious to see you early next week.

Hit her up, don't sweat it, you are in a good position. However do not make this a habit until you fuvk her in the future.






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HappyHarryHardon

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go for it i say. if she can't and really does like you she'll offer another day (happened to me a few times) but after the second date lay off for at least a week with no contact as well. let her contact after that.
 
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