"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Had an amazing first date last night, haven't had that much chemistry with a girl in a very long time. We got drinks, went back to her place, watched a movie and fooled around. Her IL is very high; all over me, kept telling me how much fun she was having, how handsome I am, etc. I was in control all night and led nicely.

We agreed on an idea for a second date, but didn't set a date. Looking at my schedule today, I realized Mon and Tues of this week are my only free days until next week. I'd like to strike while the iron is hot, and was thinking about calling her tonight and telling her its a busy week and those are the only two days I can squeeze her in. Would that be too much too soon, or an acceptable move?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tiguere

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If what you are telling us is true she will gladly make time flr you either monday or tuesday.

If she is spinnning plates then its a 50/50 chance. Call her later on .
 
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You went out Sat and you want to take her out again Mon/Tues??? Don't do it man. Women fall in love with you when they are away from you. Not when they are with you. Don't give her too much of your attention. She will fall harder.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Szyzzlin said:
You went out Sat and you want to take her out again Mon/Tues??? Don't do it man. Women fall in love with you when they are away from you. Not when they are with you. Don't give her too much of your attention. She will fall harder.
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Not saying you are Szyzzlin, but this is a total keyboard jockey response. Every situation is unique and that's how you should base how to proceed, not following a strict guideline or formula. If you need to rely on things like that, you will eventually been figured out as a fraud by the girl when you over-react to a situation later down the road.

To the OP, if her interest is high, she will make time. If she truly can't make either day, then she will be anxious to see you early next week.

Hit her up, don't sweat it, you are in a good position. However do not make this a habit until you fuvk her in the future.






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go for it i say. if she can't and really does like you she'll offer another day (happened to me a few times) but after the second date lay off for at least a week with no contact as well. let her contact after that.
 
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