"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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would this be a good idea?

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Noeltech8907

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Well i was talking to a girl on the phone last night and when i told her i had to go she told me to call tomarrow. So it then went like this.

Me: Ill call you if i get the time.

Her: get the time, you better make the time for me.

Me: *laughing* yeah we will see.

So do you think it would be a good idea to call her today. I dont think I should just because she said i better make time for her but i dont know. Whats funny is that almost everytime she tells me to call her she will end up calling me first lol. but what do you guys think.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJnoob

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I'd call her but keep it really short but End it with like "Im heading out right now, I'll, talk to you again later." make it sound you are busy
 
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DJnoob said:
I'd call her but keep it really short but End it with like "Im heading out right now, I'll, talk to you again later." make it sound you are busy
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Always state that you are busy or don't have long to talk, unless you are seeking something serious with someone. All talking about nothing does is give someone with lots of experience tons of chances to **** things up. Get in and get out.
 
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You ever stop and think why you wouldn't call her instead of respecting the 'rules'?

I mean, if your pride in not looking desperate is enough for you to give up p*ssy, then by all means, don't call.
 
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