Hi I'm a 17 year old senior in high school. I like to think I'm fairly good looking and while im still working on developing my confidence, I gained a lot of confidence at the beginning of this year and have been able to hook up with several different girls at parties. Here's my problem, at my high school the social scene revolves completley around parties, there isnt a dating scene really people dont tend to go out on dates it seems, I goto most of the parties, but thing is at these parties there arent a whole lot of hooking up at the parties and when i can hook up with a girl its usually just kissing, not sex head etc... What I'm asking is how can i transtion seeing girls at parties and getting there numbers to not just kissing them at another kids house party but actually having sex with them, when all the girls at my school want to do is goto parties on weekends and there is no dating scene and there is rarely sex at these parties. Sorry for the slopiness of the question if any clarfication is needed let me know thanks for your help mike
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Would really appreciate some advice
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