"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Would really appreciate some advice

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Hi I'm a 17 year old senior in high school. I like to think I'm fairly good looking and while im still working on developing my confidence, I gained a lot of confidence at the beginning of this year and have been able to hook up with several different girls at parties. Here's my problem, at my high school the social scene revolves completley around parties, there isnt a dating scene really people dont tend to go out on dates it seems, I goto most of the parties, but thing is at these parties there arent a whole lot of hooking up at the parties and when i can hook up with a girl its usually just kissing, not sex head etc... What I'm asking is how can i transtion seeing girls at parties and getting there numbers to not just kissing them at another kids house party but actually having sex with them, when all the girls at my school want to do is goto parties on weekends and there is no dating scene and there is rarely sex at these parties. Sorry for the slopiness of the question if any clarfication is needed let me know thanks for your help mike
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well... if there is no dating scene, and rarely sex at parties, then where is the sex?

If you're at a party with a girl whos making out with you, just take her out to your car or into another room of the house.
 

War Against Betaism

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If there's kissing involved then it should be much easier to transition to sex. Usually in these moments you'll know what to do and will act accordingly.
 

smooth guy

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am I missing something here? So the majority of your school doesn't date. Why don't you be different and actually ask a girl on a date? I can't think of an easier way to stand out from the other guys.
 

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Inviting a girl over for a movie is the easiest way to get laid. Parties aren't the place.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thanks

Thanks for the advice guys this is helpful, so you think the next time i goto a party i should just get a girls phone number than wait to a time when my parents leave and ask her if she wants to come over and watch a movie. Any other advice or ideas on how i can seperate girls from the party scene to an isolated zone where i can have sex with them would be appreciated
thanks again for all of your advice
 
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