No, because I'd never send it to her. And, if she sent me one, when I finally logged in after two weeks, and it was still there, I'd reject hers.
A lot of people don't want to mix business and personal sh1t. They don't want all their co-workers passing around pictures of them in a bikini while they're doing a beer bong. Some do though, and they're called AW's.
Either way you lose.
zinc4 said:
it's the first time i have ever sent a co-worker a request....i only did it to try and lighten a mood there because i have to see her every day in a tiny small office...i could actually care less about being her friend or whatever outside of work, i just don't like tension in the workplace which existed before this attempt to dissolve it...if i had it my way i would work alone so i don't have to waste my time dealing with others when i am there for one reason only...to make money
What's the tension coming from? Did you cause it? Did you do something "inappropriate"?
If not, then just don't give a fvck. Either way, I wouldn't try to resolve sh1t. You sent her an innocent friends request, she turned you down. Respect it, no big deal. Go about your day as the self-assured, alpha, indifferent man you are.
zinc4 said:
the thing is i walk past her many times every day and she has to interrupt my classes (i'm a teacher) to take role call as part of her job and now i feel funny even saying hi to her without acknowledging it......if i didn't have to see her repeatedly many times 6 days a week i wouldn't give a sh%t.....
and no i didn't cause any tension...although like i said, me and her best friend are pretty much workplace enemies and everyone knows it...she could be doing it out of loyalty toward her friend because she started acting way different after me and her friend clashed so much...
You're acting like a beta......
Seriously dude,
why do you give a fvck??? Smile and give her a wink on the downlow, and when she gives you a disproving look, wink again. Or, Totally ignore her. Either one would be better than acting like a little insecure beta who's workplace harmony relies on whether or not the friend of some girl will pay attention to you and acknowledge you...... and oh hopefully she likes me!!! I hope I didn't do anything wrong!!
The end.
zinc4 said:
Yeah, i guess it would be pointless to bring up the fact that i saw her on facebook and sent her a request...
I think also she may have felt like i ignored her for a while because she would hover around me at times and i would just focus on what i was working on because a lot of times i go to work i get into a tunnel mode of only focusing on myself and what i am doing...
Why do you care what she felt? Hypothetical question for you to digest, don't answer it.
