"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would it be wrong to do this? Advice?

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Jokerlsk

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Ok well i'm a softmore in HS and this new girl i talk to is a junior. She's really religious and only wears skirts. Idk the deal with that. Anyways she talks to my sister in chorus class about me all the time. I'm sure she likes me but i don't want to get involved with a weirdly religious girl. I don't think she really knows me. I would much rather someone hate me for who I am than love me for who i'm not. Would it be best if i just tell her i don't want to talk to her anymore? I would rather not get involved w/ someone and hurt her later on. Would it be mean to tell her that? Advice???

I seriously could have asked her out today, and i know you guys will think i should have regardless of the situation. I said something about tennis and she asked if i played and i said yeah. Then she said something about me and her playing together. This really made me think. I really wanted to ask her out, but i decided not to based on my judgement.
Just give me some advice. I'm totally lost and would love some good tips from someone who has experience on this subject
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Religion should not be a problem, if people marry with people from different religions who are you to judge if you want to even talk to a girl based on religion. There is much more to people that religious beliefs.

Also, ask her out to get to know her of her to get to know you, do not wait until you GET TO KNOW HER to ask her out cuz if you do your convo in the date could get boring.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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