"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Would it be wrong to do this? Advice?

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Jokerlsk

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Ok well i'm a softmore in HS and this new girl i talk to is a junior. She's really religious and only wears skirts. Idk the deal with that. Anyways she talks to my sister in chorus class about me all the time. I'm sure she likes me but i don't want to get involved with a weirdly religious girl. I don't think she really knows me. I would much rather someone hate me for who I am than love me for who i'm not. Would it be best if i just tell her i don't want to talk to her anymore? I would rather not get involved w/ someone and hurt her later on. Would it be mean to tell her that? Advice???

I seriously could have asked her out today, and i know you guys will think i should have regardless of the situation. I said something about tennis and she asked if i played and i said yeah. Then she said something about me and her playing together. This really made me think. I really wanted to ask her out, but i decided not to based on my judgement.
Just give me some advice. I'm totally lost and would love some good tips from someone who has experience on this subject
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Religion should not be a problem, if people marry with people from different religions who are you to judge if you want to even talk to a girl based on religion. There is much more to people that religious beliefs.

Also, ask her out to get to know her of her to get to know you, do not wait until you GET TO KNOW HER to ask her out cuz if you do your convo in the date could get boring.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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