"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would it be wrong to do this? Advice?

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Ok well i'm a softmore in HS and this new girl i talk to is a junior. She's really religious and only wears skirts. Idk the deal with that. Anyways she talks to my sister in chorus class about me all the time. I'm sure she likes me but i don't want to get involved with a weirdly religious girl. I don't think she really knows me. I would much rather someone hate me for who I am than love me for who i'm not. Would it be best if i just tell her i don't want to talk to her anymore? I would rather not get involved w/ someone and hurt her later on. Would it be mean to tell her that? Advice???

I seriously could have asked her out today, and i know you guys will think i should have regardless of the situation. I said something about tennis and she asked if i played and i said yeah. Then she said something about me and her playing together. This really made me think. I really wanted to ask her out, but i decided not to based on my judgement.
Just give me some advice. I'm totally lost and would love some good tips from someone who has experience on this subject
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Religion should not be a problem, if people marry with people from different religions who are you to judge if you want to even talk to a girl based on religion. There is much more to people that religious beliefs.

Also, ask her out to get to know her of her to get to know you, do not wait until you GET TO KNOW HER to ask her out cuz if you do your convo in the date could get boring.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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