"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would if be AFC-ish

fbplayer06

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Hi all,

Would it be AFC-ish to sign a girl's yearbook (at the end of the school year) with my phone number/AIM screen name?

Feel free to flame me if it is AFC-ish...

Thanks for your opinions!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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fbplayer06

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Originally posted by Best friends? NAY
NO, it wouldn't but sya soemthing like. Just don't call me 8 times a day.
Hahaha, I like that.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by Best friends? NAY
NO, it wouldn't but sya soemthing like. Just don't call me 8 times a day.
Ya i like that idea.

Its not afc ish, its hard to keep in contact with people after HS. So if you give them your number and aim especially it'll be easier than in college. Its not like your proclaiming your love to them or anything. Just be sure to drop some neg hits in it to give her a laugh and a reason to call.

And if you have to ask if its AFC-ish you need to adjust your mentality so you know.
 

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You want to know a secret? I'll tell you:

Girls don't call guys.

Unless she's way into you, a girl will probably not call you if you give her your number. I gave my number to 2 girls a few weeks ago (they asked) and they still have yet to call me. If you absolutely must give a girl your number for whatever reason, MAKE SURE you get her number in return. You don't want your number to end up in her trophy case of AFCs phone numbers, do you? Of course not; so take the initiative and get her number. That way you can be sure that you keep in touch.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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