Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
don't tell me that's true cuz that's disrespecting on my part and i really don't like it. i would be out in seconds if that's the case. perhaps some chicks just really can't put a d1ck in their mouth. any more thoughts please?djbr said:If my girlfriend does not "like" giving bl0wjobs I would find one that does, simply because by that I know I am not high rated on her scale.
you expect no self respect for your girlfriend? then you my friend have low standards. so if ur girl doesnt suk ur dik. u'll find a new one? just because shr wont suk ur c0ck? wow.. you seem like the perfect LTR mate.. let me guess, your the type of guy who puts ho3s on pedstal so later in life they think their actually something. get a grip man. shes fukin human too. shes your gf not a booty call,djbr said:If my girlfriend does not "like" giving bl0wjobs I would find one that does, simply because by that I know I am not high rated on her scale.
There's no such thing with women. Her likings are very conditioned to the status of the male she's dealing with.
Low status: I do not like nothing. Maybe holding hands.
High status: you can fvck my nose if you want to.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LOL this forum is funny lately, I wonder WTF happened. I was not far for so long...sexy_kuta said:you expect no self respect for your girlfriend? then you my friend have low standards. so if ur girl doesnt suk ur dik. u'll find a new one? just because shr wont suk ur c0ck? wow.. you seem like the perfect LTR mate..
one question if i put my dik in your mouth. would u suck it?
we're talking about LTR girls, not booty calls,djbr said:LOL this forum is funny lately, I wonder WTF happened. I was not far for so long...
I expect nothing from anyone. Everyone do WTF they want. But I am free to react as I wish too. I like to having my c0ck sucked and if a woman does not want to do that, I am out. Luckily every one of them loved it so far.
Perfect LTR? Don't want LTRs anyway.
No, I am straight. Sorry didn't want to hurt you.![]()
Pappadapolis said:Girls that madly in love, truly "under you spell" will do almost anything.
djbr said:If my girlfriend does not "like" giving bl0wjobs I would find one that does, simply because by that I know I am not high rated on her scale.
There's no such thing with women. Her likings are very conditioned to the status of the male she's dealing with.
Low status: I do not like nothing. Maybe holding hands.
High status: you can fvck my nose if you want to.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.