"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Worth pursuing? or not

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I am currently going to a private college and there is this tall attractive redhead that goes there as well. Over the course of a couple of weeks I noticed that whenever we made eye contact that she would smile at me before looking away. In my mindset at that time i thought that she might be interested in me. Finally I get the nerve to actually talk to her, and again I got a really good vibe from it. The next time I saw her, I chatted with her some more and just before I left I asked for her email address. I ended up sending her an email asking her out for coffee (ok that was a bad idea, but hindsight is 20/20) I never got a reply back, and since then she has done everything from not making eye contact to making short conversation with me.

My instinct is telling me to not bother with her and just chalk it up to a lesson learnt, but at the same time a part of me is wondering if she is just shy or playing hard to get. Any suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well from what you, looks like your email scared her off, i do not know what you siad or how long after but it was either AFC and or moved in to fast and scared her. This makes it hard, puts you below square 1, but you just got to start a conversation with her, and if you do well, she will get a new picture of what you are like, if a girl has built up a picture of what you are liek over a long time, it is hard to change her mind, but so little damage has been done that the task ahead is not too hard by any means.

hope iv been a help
 
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You have to ask this question? What are you stupid?

If the beayatch was interested she would respond to your shyt. Obiously let me spell it out for you that she is

N.O.T. I.N.T.E.R.E.S.T.E.D
 
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Oh one more thing doc.

You would base whether you go with someone on a bunch of internet wack offs opinions? Most of the heads on this site are fakers. That means they haven't head pvssy since pvssy had them.

Why take the advice of someone who isn't living the kind of lifestyle you want or desire? I guess this is why you would even ask your question...no offense playa.

Play on playa.

"don't hate the playa hate the game" -Dawn
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Oh one more thing doc.

You would base whether you go with someone on a bunch of internet wack offs opinions? Most of the heads on this site are fakers. That means they haven't head pvssy since pvssy had them.

Why take the advice of someone who isn't living the kind of lifestyle you want or desire? I guess this is why you would even ask your question...no offense playa.

Play on playa.

"don't hate the playa hate the game" -Dawn
lmao amen brotha
 
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