"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Worth Ending it?

BarMan

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I've been with this chick for a few months.. We've got a good relationship knowing that we're both flirty with other people and that's sweet but yea it kind of stops at grinding with someone else.. Drew that line in the sand early on.

A couple of weeks ago I walked into a club after work to meet her and she's dancing with this dude I'd caught her on two other occasions with.. The ok-to-flirt premise seems to have been over-stepped because it's the same guy? I dump her because I was drunk as all hell. We sort it out, myself reluctantly and not really being able to trust her.

I find out she's been texting him now.. I've called a break to be sure of my decision.. dump her or not?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chosen1

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they say the best thing a man can do is walk away you have more options then her if she pisses you off
 

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If the trust isn't there then it isn't going to work.
 

MacDiddy

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Are you still getting any action from her?

In your mind it should be all over, but stay the course so that the tap doesn't run dry, but get busy and start looking for other chicks.
 
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