"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Worth Ending it?

BarMan

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I've been with this chick for a few months.. We've got a good relationship knowing that we're both flirty with other people and that's sweet but yea it kind of stops at grinding with someone else.. Drew that line in the sand early on.

A couple of weeks ago I walked into a club after work to meet her and she's dancing with this dude I'd caught her on two other occasions with.. The ok-to-flirt premise seems to have been over-stepped because it's the same guy? I dump her because I was drunk as all hell. We sort it out, myself reluctantly and not really being able to trust her.

I find out she's been texting him now.. I've called a break to be sure of my decision.. dump her or not?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chosen1

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they say the best thing a man can do is walk away you have more options then her if she pisses you off
 

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If the trust isn't there then it isn't going to work.
 

MacDiddy

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Are you still getting any action from her?

In your mind it should be all over, but stay the course so that the tap doesn't run dry, but get busy and start looking for other chicks.
 
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