Worst rejection

[Ridingthelightning]

I have experienced my worst rejection ever, and I'm laughing my head off.

I see this crazy fine girl around A LOT, but never say anything to her. To talk to her is always out of my way, so I just don't care too much. She is in a class of mine and one day I decided I would say something. She comes up the aisle towards me and when she gets near enough and makes eye contact with me I say, "Whats up" in a nice calm tone.
She gets wide eyed and looks as if I've just introduced her to running water. I can immediately tell she's nervous as she can be and says, "Uh, yeah," and walks on up the aisle.
At first I felt like pure crap but then I just started laughing, and I know she heard it lol

Thats not really even a rejection, I think I just made her nervous cause she smiles at me now

Ahh geez

If the rest of ya have stories please share.

 

[Dirtheart]

I'm quite fortunate in that whenever I ask for numbers or dates, I never get rejected (probably because I read signs first). In my AFC days women would always agree to go out with me, but would dump me or flake out further down the line.

But I remember 2 particularly hurtful rejections in my teens. There was a girl who had a crush on me for years and we'd been making out on and off for a few months. Anyway, I asked her if she wanted to make it official and be my girlfriend. She said she'd let me know...Later that day, one of her friends came upto me and said "Rachel said no. She thinks you're a dog!"

I swear it hurt me so much. I have no idea why (or if) she said it though because a week later we were making out again and got together.

Then another time a girl I know sent her friend to ask me out. I said yes and went to speak to the girl. As soon as I approached her, she whispered something to her friend who turned to me and said "She's changed her mind. Sorry".

 

[So pimp its scary]

Two worst rejections was between a two week period...

I was at the bar one night, having a migraine, and this girl came up and brought me to dance... she was pug fugly, but I was so chump that I didn't care. One way or the other, we ended up going on two dates, but then I shot down the next time I asked...

I was completely overwhelmed... how a girl that ugly could possibly shoot ME DOWN!!! I'm much better then that, but I'm not getting my share... GAAAA !!!!

Life continued, the following weekend after the rejection, I was at a friends house party. I went out for a smoke, when I came back there was the most beautiful girl that I've ever seen, sitting with a friend of hers.

I go up to introduce myself, and in reaching for her hand I spill her beer all over her... I think, "There goes any shot I had." And continue downstairs to the party.

Later, I go up, and she's sitting on the couch, we have an GREAT discussion, good rapport and everything... then she left, but not before giving hints that she wanted me to ask for her number. And I didn't catch on before she was OUT THE DOOR!!!

Complete and utter devastation... my 'rock bottom' so to speak. That gave me the will to learn what I was doing wrong, and to do what it takes to make it happen.

 

[S0LID]

keep them coming

It's all a numbers game.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Originally posted by Dirtheart
Then another time a girl I know sent her friend to ask me out. I said yes and went to speak to the girl. As soon as I approached her, she whispered something to her friend who turned to me and said "She's changed her mind. Sorry".

Haha, that's gotta be the funniest thing I've read all day. How old is she? 11? 12?