"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Worst PUA Advice You Ever Received

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nismo-4

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1. Just be yourself.

2. Just wait for the right woman to come to you.

3. You're just not her type.

4. There's somebody for everybody.

5. If you can't get a girl you weren't meant to have one.

6. You haven't met the right someone.

7. Wait for love as it'll find you.

8. You'll meet the right girl someday.

9. It's just not your time to have a woman.

These are about the ABSOLUTE WORST things i heard in the PUA community.
 

Nexus Polaris

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Not to shît on the man or anything because he did teach me a whole lot at the beginning....... but is it just me or does Mystery not seem all that smooth the more you figure out what you're doing?
 

Dante420

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Nexus Polaris said:
Not to shît on the man or anything because he did teach me a whole lot at the beginning....... but is it just me or does Mystery not seem all that smooth the more you figure out what you're doing?

Exactly, I still get his e-mail updates and sort through all the non-sense to maybe find something applicable but some of the stuff he teaches. . . .I could just imagine how wrong it goes when some chumps try to pull this stuff off. . .

Like

"Hand-On-Leg: While sitting next to her take her
hand and rest it on your leg. Soften the move by
saying, "Don't get any funny ideas." Continue
talking to her about something unrelated."
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Demystify

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The worst PUA advice I've received is to give up on girls that show IODs and to escalate with girls that show IOIs. I think IODs and IOIs are usually meaningless for me. I've had girls that have showed me lots of IOIs but turned out they were just doing that to get attention from me and build their vanity and in fact they weren't interested in me at all. And I've also had girls that have given me lots of IODs that I've ended up hooking up with.
 
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