"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Worst PUA Advice You Ever Received

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nismo-4

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1. Just be yourself.

2. Just wait for the right woman to come to you.

3. You're just not her type.

4. There's somebody for everybody.

5. If you can't get a girl you weren't meant to have one.

6. You haven't met the right someone.

7. Wait for love as it'll find you.

8. You'll meet the right girl someday.

9. It's just not your time to have a woman.

These are about the ABSOLUTE WORST things i heard in the PUA community.
 

Nexus Polaris

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Not to shît on the man or anything because he did teach me a whole lot at the beginning....... but is it just me or does Mystery not seem all that smooth the more you figure out what you're doing?
 

Dante420

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Nexus Polaris said:
Not to shît on the man or anything because he did teach me a whole lot at the beginning....... but is it just me or does Mystery not seem all that smooth the more you figure out what you're doing?

Exactly, I still get his e-mail updates and sort through all the non-sense to maybe find something applicable but some of the stuff he teaches. . . .I could just imagine how wrong it goes when some chumps try to pull this stuff off. . .

Like

"Hand-On-Leg: While sitting next to her take her
hand and rest it on your leg. Soften the move by
saying, "Don't get any funny ideas." Continue
talking to her about something unrelated."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Demystify

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The worst PUA advice I've received is to give up on girls that show IODs and to escalate with girls that show IOIs. I think IODs and IOIs are usually meaningless for me. I've had girls that have showed me lots of IOIs but turned out they were just doing that to get attention from me and build their vanity and in fact they weren't interested in me at all. And I've also had girls that have given me lots of IODs that I've ended up hooking up with.
 
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