"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Worst or Best Wingman Ever?

jgoodz

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My best bud, is a friggin super model. Girls just drool over him. He can literally just sit at the bar, not say a word and have girls approach him. I on the other hand, am not a super model but I'm also not by any means ugly. I'm simply just not as good looking as he is.
I feel as though , that I'm the one playing wing man, the majority of the time. So I've been questioning...
How can I use HIM as a WINGMAN? How can I unlock and harness his powers to his full potential, and make him achieve superior wingman abilities? How would one be able to use this type of wingman to ones advantage ?

Is he the worst wingman ever because every girl would automatically be attracted to him rather then to you. Or is he the best wingman ever.... If so why?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GoodOne123

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He is not a good wingman. Everywhere you go, the women are going to be fixated on him, and trying to get with him.

The women are not going to pay attention, or feel you because the second that guy walks in they only care about him. That's an issue, you want the women to have a chance to feel your vibe, your presence, check out your style etc. It's hard when a guy with amazing looks and high confidence because of this) is right next to you. It suppresses your vibe.

There's ways to go about using him as a wingman though. The only way I see it is if you get him to approach a group of girls, and get their approval, which will be easy for him. Then get him to introduce you into the group. At this point look for the girls who are feeling you and not totally fixated on him. If he is in a relationship or gay get him to tell them that, and joke about how you, his buddy, is single. That'll hopefully get them off him and focus on you.

In a sense he is a good wingman just for his ability to get approval of large groups of girls, where you will come in. But like I said, keep in mind they probably just want to get with him most of the time.

Ideally you want to separate yourself from him a bit and do your own thing. Let the girls have a chance to feel you, give them a chance to see if they like you, as opposed to being distracted by Mr brad Pitt lookalike.

But that being said, try your luck with him, I'm sure he can open up tons of girl groups for you to talk to.
 
Von

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I agree with GoodOne, your friend can be a good wingman on 2 occassions:

1) He introduce a single girl (a friend of his)

2) He plays the group opener, he goes for the hunt for you and than introduce and puts you on a pedestal (as the leader of the 2 which you have to back up of course with strong game. He will open the door, elevate you and fuel you in front of the others (hes the coolest, I owe him so much.... basically I am me because of him)... than you isolate 1 girl... and he distract the others

So you want to be introduced to a max and individually get numbers or invitations to partys from the girls (without your friend)
 
jgoodz

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So basically he is not a great wingman. Only way to be good is if ... he opens the door, introduces me, and praises me?
 
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jgoodz said:
So basically he is not a great wingman. Only way to be good is if ... he opens the door, introduces me, and praises me?
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yes

he has to cosign u in this situation
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt

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If he's really your friend and he has all the pvssy he wants already, then he shouldn't mind telling an occasional hot girl that he's gay, so as to re-direct her in your direction. That's taking one for the team.
 
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