"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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eli77

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Cracker barrel country store dishwasher during the recession
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Long time ago I worked in a lab with a guy whose previous job involved "extracting" semen from hogs.
 

Fortune_favors_the_bold

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Public school student...you get bullied from post wall overweight psycho women and dont even get paid.

Also the schedule is daily beside sunday.
 

Vanderdonck

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Had an assembly line job in college that was the Saturday overnight shift, midnight to 7 a.m. The shift had maybe two ten minute breaks. Yes, this was a union job and the pay was slightly over minimum wage. One co worker was a guy on work release from prison. He told me all about why he went to the slammer, that he stole money from a safe at a business. Then he asked me if I could give him a ride to the mall the next day.

I quite after two weeks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I worked at a fast food restaurant for about 8hrs over a total of 3 days in my teenager years . They started me out washing dishes then moved me up to burger assembly.

This guy was training me to put the toppings on the hamburger. He was a fast food worker for life in his late 30's. He wanted me to put the toppings on in a certain way.

After about 20min of that I told him I had enough and walked out.
 

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A little workshop run by an overly ambitious business school graduate, trying to develop a smartphone from scratch with only a basic understanding of the technical side, and very poor pay as well. Only worked there a week before I found a better job.
 

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I don't know about Job but I would have to say volunteering or voluntold during Bootcamp in The Military to do Kitchen Patrol duties.....lol the perks of that job would be chowing down on the left over food while washing dishes Lol haha
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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