"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Worst cases of AFCism you have ever seen

TubularBells28

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Give me some examples guys.

I have a good one, I had a pretty good friend of mine show me a poem he wrote for a girl he liked. It was the sappiest, most cliched filled piece of crap I have ever read. It all ended with the overly used, "My love burns for you like a thousand suns."

It doesn't take a genius to figure out the end result of all of this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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green69

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Originally posted by TubularBells28
Give me some examples guys.

I have a good one, I had a pretty good friend of mine show me a poem he wrote for a girl he liked. It was the sappiest, most cliched filled piece of crap I have ever read. It all ended with the overly used, "My love burns for you like a thousand suns."

It doesn't take a genius to figure out the end result of all of this.
She ended up professing her love for him and she f*cked his brains out?
 
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