"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Worst cases of AFCism you have ever seen

TubularBells28

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Give me some examples guys.

I have a good one, I had a pretty good friend of mine show me a poem he wrote for a girl he liked. It was the sappiest, most cliched filled piece of crap I have ever read. It all ended with the overly used, "My love burns for you like a thousand suns."

It doesn't take a genius to figure out the end result of all of this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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green69

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Originally posted by TubularBells28
Give me some examples guys.

I have a good one, I had a pretty good friend of mine show me a poem he wrote for a girl he liked. It was the sappiest, most cliched filled piece of crap I have ever read. It all ended with the overly used, "My love burns for you like a thousand suns."

It doesn't take a genius to figure out the end result of all of this.
She ended up professing her love for him and she f*cked his brains out?
 
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