Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Worst call ever

Exo

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Hey,

Whats the absolute worst/most AFC move you ever made? Could be could be good for some laughs and reviews. I'll start it of.

I made good progress with this 6. Everything was cool, I made the call 3 days later(ie, on the 4th day) at round 8pm. She seemed pretty enthusiastic till I messed up the "where" of the date("[place] or [other place], well fnd something). Still managedable till she asked when I went:" uhh, umm say 3?". I got the "lemme check my schedule and call you back" at that point.

Next! It's cool first time after a long rut.Now I went to dinner with the fammily and being bored stupid I called her up round 7pm(this was 2 days later). This went bad as the network was loaded and I said I'd call her back. Another 3 days later I did. Now I really blew it, She asked how I'm doing and I'm "yeah, great you wanna go to [place]?" Acted like it was the end of the world and she said to call me back(fortunatly whatever DJ the seds left in me kicked in and I told her to give me a ring when she can get it strait).

To top it of, I was'nt feeling too hot the next morning and 5 beers later and I called up the calss blaber to tell em what hapened.She thinks I was ona dare asking her out lol!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Exo

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LOL my bad. But hey archive is reply only :p
 

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Originally posted by Exo
I messed up the "where" of the date("[place] or [other place], well fnd something).

How did you mess up?
 

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On reflection that's probably not it, it's the "when" part.

Had'nt really planned out the when and where (still coming out of a rut). When she asked where'd we'd go I said: "Uhh, [restaurant] or [semi-restaurant eatery]" just of the top of my head. She didnt sound as enthusiastic but still not exactly unwilling. Then when she asked I said about 3pm(again blurted) so then she gives me the "I'll call you back". Was quite polite about it though like next day she finds me and apologises for not calling.

BTW, she looked like she wanted and asnwer but didnt give her any. Some more things hapened and I'm thinking this was a female DJ. Either way she's NXDD
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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