"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Worried About a DJ Friend

Munchking

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I have a friend who is a senior, really chill, and he's been a complete DJ for as long as I can remember. He's an awesome guy though, and incredibly nice -- he's found the exact line between being nice and busting balls so hard the girls don't know what hit them -- I've seen him do both.

He was in an LTR for about a year, but recently the girl moved away and their relationship slowly unraveled -- no drama, it just sorta faded away.

The other day he told me that he was trying to hang out more with this one girl because he's "got a huge crush on her... I think she's f*ing smokin' hot."

I'm a bit worried that if he's falling head over heels for this girl, he might end up losing his DJ touch and getting rejected quite badly. Do you think I should point out his "mistakes", or trust to his past record?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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john paul

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From what you say your friend knows the game so let him do his thing.

What he is saying to you is bothering you but any decent DJ has it together in his head with a plan of attack so dont intervein.

Now if he starts skuzzin hardcore with chump shtt with this girl then you should defenently consider adding your 2 cents to the jar to help straighten him out.

If he fvcks up with this girl then no big deal, its senior year like you said so she will be gone from his life and he can take the experience with him for better.
 

schttrj

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haha, nice to see that u r worrying for ur friend. anyways, v simple answer here, if he is natural, then he will do the right thing even if he doesnt know that. if he has been thru this site and playin it consciously, u need not worry then also. so either way, let him do his thing. but if u really are so worried to keep his DJ touch, do a thing. get him into a competition on who gets better and more. it will surely keep him on track.
 
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