"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Worried About a DJ Friend

Munchking

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I have a friend who is a senior, really chill, and he's been a complete DJ for as long as I can remember. He's an awesome guy though, and incredibly nice -- he's found the exact line between being nice and busting balls so hard the girls don't know what hit them -- I've seen him do both.

He was in an LTR for about a year, but recently the girl moved away and their relationship slowly unraveled -- no drama, it just sorta faded away.

The other day he told me that he was trying to hang out more with this one girl because he's "got a huge crush on her... I think she's f*ing smokin' hot."

I'm a bit worried that if he's falling head over heels for this girl, he might end up losing his DJ touch and getting rejected quite badly. Do you think I should point out his "mistakes", or trust to his past record?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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john paul

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From what you say your friend knows the game so let him do his thing.

What he is saying to you is bothering you but any decent DJ has it together in his head with a plan of attack so dont intervein.

Now if he starts skuzzin hardcore with chump shtt with this girl then you should defenently consider adding your 2 cents to the jar to help straighten him out.

If he fvcks up with this girl then no big deal, its senior year like you said so she will be gone from his life and he can take the experience with him for better.
 

schttrj

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haha, nice to see that u r worrying for ur friend. anyways, v simple answer here, if he is natural, then he will do the right thing even if he doesnt know that. if he has been thru this site and playin it consciously, u need not worry then also. so either way, let him do his thing. but if u really are so worried to keep his DJ touch, do a thing. get him into a competition on who gets better and more. it will surely keep him on track.
 
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