"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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World's fattest man has a girlfriend and you don't

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I was channel flipping and saw this thing on TLC titled "worlds fattest man" so I decided to check it out real quick. Wish I hadn't now because I feel like a real loser.lol Fat doesn't even begin to describe this dude. He lives over in London and some chick here in America saw a show about him and somehow looked him up online, they got to talking and she flew her @$$ all the way to London to be with this fat b@stard! This dude has to ride in an ambulance because his big @$$ can't fit in a normal car, he pulls up to the airport in this thing and they unload him into his SUPER wide electric wheel chair. They meet at the airport and this woman gives him a huge likes he's been off to war the past 5 years or something. I've never gotten a hug like that in my life. The real kicker is I bet you think this lady is ugly or fat or both. Hell no, she's f*cking HOT(not hot in our terms but you'd never expect a woman that looks like this to give him the time of day), in shape, and I'm sitting there like "what the fvck?" I could go on POF right now and be turned down by women that look like this broad, and this fat dude is pulling leg! Again, she sought HIM ought not the other way around. You gotta watch this show to see what I'm talking about. If you're single and feeling like a loser, this show won't help your confidence that's for sure.lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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he mite be a really nice person doe
 

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She is a woman.She made emotional decision when she saw the drama.She isnt in love,she is feeding of emotions to be with world fattest man,which give him mini celebrity status.When emotions will wear out she will be gone leaving him heartbroken.

OP women love winners or loosers,its guy in the middle who gets screwed,because he doesnt create emotions in a woman aka nice guy.She was moved by tragedy of this man,this created emotions in her and emotions are womans fuel.This is why guys like thugs,drug dealers,serial killers etc get girls they create emotions in them doesnt matter good or bad,for woman emotion is emotion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She also mentioned more than once she has her own business. This is wonderful advertisement for that business.
 

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Besides what's been said, some women actually like overweight men. They prefer them. How do I know? I'm on one of the premier sites for it (obviously for other purposes, I'm neither overweight nor interested in men).
 

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Having a girlfriend is not an achievement. You're still stuck in that AFC mentality.
 

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As I've said before any retard can get a girlfriend. I think all men actually want one they are attracted to. I could get a fatty but who wants that? I have an ugly girl who's really into me right now but I wouldn't hit it if she were the last girl in the world.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There's no longer shame in obesity anymore so now it's becoming "attractive"
 

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Who think she may be attracted is naive.She is doing this for attention.She can play now mother Theresa.
 

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Having a girlfriend is not that much of an achievement. Being able to spin multiple hot plates while attracting and owning the ones you want is the goal.
 

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Some women have a sort of caretaker syndrome. They get involved with men so they can take care of them and feel needed. I've seen a lot of examples of this in real life. I'm surprised they don't talk about this sort of thing more often in seduction circles. But they're all stuck on their alphas and betas. There's a lot more going on in the dating world than the simple stereotypes you read about here.
 

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zekko said:
Some women have a sort of caretaker syndrome. They get involved with men so they can take care of them and feel needed. I've seen a lot of examples of this in real life. I'm surprised they don't talk about this sort of thing more often in seduction circles. But they're all stuck on their alphas and betas. There's a lot more going on in the dating world than the simple stereotypes you read about here.
I'm glad you brought this up. I might be going off on a slight tangent, but here goes...

I'm sure we've all heard the following armchair "theories" about women:

1. "Women like a 'project' for a man or a 'fixer-upper.'"

2. "They like to nurture a guy that has issues."

3. "It's some maternal instinct thing going when women go for men that have issues."

But, my problem with such theories is that women, for the most part, only consider bad boys and/or physically large men as viable "fixer-upper" candidates or "to be nurtured or changed" material. It is certainly arguable that the responsible, skinny/average build, nice guy is also a "fixer-upper" that needs work (although maybe less). But somehow women don't consider him a worthy "project."**

**Unless she already married him and is trying to control and change every aspect of his existence, but were aren't talking about that lol. I'm talking about initial attraction and dating/relationships, not marriage.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Some women have a sort of caretaker syndrome. They get involved with men so they can take care of them and feel needed. I've seen a lot of examples of this in real life. I'm surprised they don't talk about this sort of thing more often in seduction circles. But they're all stuck on their alphas and betas. There's a lot more going on in the dating world than the simple stereotypes you read about here.
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i pulled so much trim by disclosing to women i was a former drug addict. they all saw it as something that needed to be fixed.
 

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backbreaker said:
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i pulled so much trim by disclosing to women i was a former drug addict. they all saw it as something that needed to be fixed.
Lmao

Pretty soon all men will become crack addicts in order to pull tail haha
 

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Agree with Zekko, women date differently then what people on here seem to think. Not all women date the "ripped muscular alpha male" type guys some people on here trying to become. I seen women with skinny lanky awkward guys, chubby guys with beards, ETC.

I do know women who like chubby teddy bear types

And no joke I know a white girl who is dating a INDIAN guy and she is attractive. And seen a white woman with a Indian dude romantically at Starbucks twice in the same week.
 

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Having a girlfriend is not an achievement. You're still stuck in that AFC mentality.
With that taken on board, there is yet something awesome about getting full undivided attention from an HB9/10 who bigs you up and isn't trying to play into your anxieties, like the common female message-board user.

It feels like getting a pass into the lifestyle of someone who has actually been treated as of value to society.

When cold hard reality kicks in, I tend not to expect it.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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