"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Worlds Biggest ****block: The mother.

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Alright... so her mother called me a Cassanova. And explained fully to her about the "Don Juan" personality. Yes, she used those words.

According to the girl, I look like one, act like one, and talk like one. (A evil Don Juan/Player guy)

Now, I've turned this girl far to far into the darkside for her to turn back - but how on earth do you disarm the ****block here? I mean... *chuckles* I'm not gonna have to hit on the mom now, am I? Like I've seen done in the movies. :p I have a feeling the evil mother's constant talk of how much like her father - back in the days - I am, and how dating me is only gonna end up in pain, pain, and more pain; will eventually get to her head, and she'll start believeing it. :-(

Seriously... do I need to kidnap her and sell her as a slave to Zimbabwian rebels or what?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Problem is, I get the feeling her mom knows all about game. I've met her dad, and he would make one hell of a cool DJ rolemodel. I mean, this guy is like 50, divorced, and yeah... still got the moves. :-/
 

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One big lesson ive learned is to ALWAYS REMAIN A MYSTERY. Never open up to a female, not even when you think she is the one or she is really different.
 

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One big lesson ive learned is to ALWAYS REMAIN A MYSTERY. Never open up to a female, not even when you think she is the one or she is really different.
 

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You're wrong. The world's biggest ****blocker is the fat, ugly female friend. This girl will never like you unless you find a guy to keep her occupied.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I flirt with my fiances mother all the time. I make inappropriate sexual jokes, flirt with her and call her "mum" all the time, which she kinda likes.

Treat all women the same, right?
 
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