"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Worlds Biggest ****block: The mother.

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Alright... so her mother called me a Cassanova. And explained fully to her about the "Don Juan" personality. Yes, she used those words.

According to the girl, I look like one, act like one, and talk like one. (A evil Don Juan/Player guy)

Now, I've turned this girl far to far into the darkside for her to turn back - but how on earth do you disarm the ****block here? I mean... *chuckles* I'm not gonna have to hit on the mom now, am I? Like I've seen done in the movies. :p I have a feeling the evil mother's constant talk of how much like her father - back in the days - I am, and how dating me is only gonna end up in pain, pain, and more pain; will eventually get to her head, and she'll start believeing it. :-(

Seriously... do I need to kidnap her and sell her as a slave to Zimbabwian rebels or what?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Problem is, I get the feeling her mom knows all about game. I've met her dad, and he would make one hell of a cool DJ rolemodel. I mean, this guy is like 50, divorced, and yeah... still got the moves. :-/
 
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One big lesson ive learned is to ALWAYS REMAIN A MYSTERY. Never open up to a female, not even when you think she is the one or she is really different.
 
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One big lesson ive learned is to ALWAYS REMAIN A MYSTERY. Never open up to a female, not even when you think she is the one or she is really different.
 
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You're wrong. The world's biggest ****blocker is the fat, ugly female friend. This girl will never like you unless you find a guy to keep her occupied.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I flirt with my fiances mother all the time. I make inappropriate sexual jokes, flirt with her and call her "mum" all the time, which she kinda likes.

Treat all women the same, right?
 
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