"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
World War 3 will not be nuclear
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Heh, I forgot how much my posts affected you. Yet another user account and you're still half in awe at my silver tongue but still furious..Bing. said:
You're not going to flip out again are you?edit:
Well, as much as I hate to admit it the man's got a point.backseatjuan said:
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What else do people like Jaylan do..
If someone like Jaylan was your supervisor at work cause diversity he would prevent you from getting promoted, likely get you fired.
If you filed for unemployment, he'd try to get it denied.
If you filed an EEO complaint he'd summarily deny it.
if a gentle giant committed a serious crime against you or a family member, jaylans on the jury would acquit.
If you were running for political office the jaylans would all vote against you no matter what...
People like Jaylan are very dangerous to your well-being.
If someone like Jaylan was your supervisor at work cause diversity he would prevent you from getting promoted, likely get you fired.
If you filed for unemployment, he'd try to get it denied.
If you filed an EEO complaint he'd summarily deny it.
if a gentle giant committed a serious crime against you or a family member, jaylans on the jury would acquit.
If you were running for political office the jaylans would all vote against you no matter what...
People like Jaylan are very dangerous to your well-being.