Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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World War 2, people would marry the day they meet?

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I saw the death of Stan Lee's wife today and the retold his "how we met" story that basically he was 1. Set up on a lunch date, 2. Went to pick up date 3. Saw her was smitten and accidentally said "I love you!" 4. Proposed to her ON their lunch date

Today if you did that, you'd get pepper spray or your lunch date would disappear before you would blink.

But often times, most WW II era stories, you'd here how they'd just pointed at the "most prettiest girl in the room", said, "I'm going to marry that girl!" and they did just that.

Basically, men were the biggest betas in the WW 2 era by wearing their hearts on their sleeves like they did.

Stan Lee wasn't even a soldier.

Today, that would be considered socially inept.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Remember: in the old days people had to get married in order to have sex basically. So the nostalgia of "we got married" really translates today to "we did it".
 

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Tons of sex happened in those days, baby boom era for a reason. Guys came back from the war pissed as living chit and just had to get a nut ffs.. or 10..
 

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LOL wow great trolling 10/10
 
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World War II guys were betas?

I thought I'd heard it all.

I suppose they're not as macho as the guys wearing skinny jeans and earrings today? Or the gym rats who have unnecessarily large muscles for their actual lives? Or the creepy photographers who go after strippers half their age? Or the drug dealers from the ghetto? Or the military "men" of today who fight over the computer?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Basically, men were the biggest betas in the WW 2 era by wearing their hearts on their sleeves like they did.
World War II took place from 1939-1945. Women were still not allowed to vote in many countries. They were still very submissive and feminine while the men were still very dominant and masculine. No matter who a man married, he'd still get a good deal out of it because she was raised to cook and clean for a hard working man.

Back then, you could marry a hot woman and the chance of her fvcking off with another dude was extremely low. Nowadays, you have to filter out all the broads who have a plethora of orbiters.
 
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World War II took place from 1939-1945. Women were still not allowed to vote in many countries. They were still very submissive and feminine while the men were still very dominant and masculine. No matter who a man married, he'd still get a good deal out of it because she was raised to cook and clean for a hard working man.

Back then, you could marry a hot woman and the chance of her fvcking off with another dude was extremely low. Nowadays, you have to filter out all the broads who have a plethora of orbiters.
Back then, you could be a plumber and marry a virgin beauty queen. Now, the world is full of who. Res.
 

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World War II took place from 1939-1945. Women were still not allowed to vote in many countries. They were still very submissive and feminine while the men were still very dominant and masculine. No matter who a man married, he'd still get a good deal out of it because she was raised to cook and clean for a hard working man.

Back then, you could marry a hot woman and the chance of her fvcking off with another dude was extremely low. Nowadays, you have to filter out all the broads who have a plethora of orbiters.
Yeah...Stan Lees said he had some competition of really BIG, masculine looking guys, too. But she chose him regardless.
 

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Girls have always been the same. I found out my great grandad impregnated a lot of women in his time lol so that means there's a lot of families with Cuck grandads. Quit the nostalgia bullshvt
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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This was what happened with Robert Kraft, the owner of the New England patriots too. It is what happened with Billy Crystal (he talks about it in his one man Broadway show about his own life).

I don't see it as beta at all. I see it as utterly and apologetically alpha. Think about it. In WWII particularly, you had men who had their buddies killed before their eyes. Boom, your pal is gone, game over. And you gotta get on with it or its your ass too. These were men who, as a group deeply understood that life is NOW and that anyone can be gone tomorrow.

These men came home, having seen the contemporaneous nature of life up close and personal, took that perspective, and acted accordingly. The simply stated what they wanted. They made a decision and they led.

Men do still exist who make a decision and lead, but it is relatively rare these days. There has been no enormous sort of crisis in the Western world to reinforce the temporary nature of life, and the need for personal leadership and decision. I think if you go to war torn places in the world today you will absolutely find this sort of phenomena. Raw knowledge of the perilous nature of life creates urgency and decision making. Under such circumstances there isn't the luxury of endless choice and messing around.
 

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There has been no enormous sort of crisis in the Western world to reinforce the temporary nature of life, and the need for personal leadership and decision.

Shut up! Which means a lot of you have been breakin' the first two rules of Fight Club. Man, I see in Fight Club the strongest and smartest men who have ever lived. I see all this potential, and I see it squandered. Goddammit, an entire generation pumping gas, waiting tables, slaves with white collars. Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy **** we don't need. We're the middle children of history, man; no purpose or place. We have no Great War, no Great Depression. Our Great War is a spiritual war. Our Great Depression is our lives. We've all been raised by television to believe that one day we'd all be millionaires and movie gods and rock stars. But we won't; and we're slowly learning that fact. And we're very, very pissed off.
 
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Shut up! Which means a lot of you have been breakin' the first two rules of Fight Club. Man, I see in Fight Club the strongest and smartest men who have ever lived. I see all this potential, and I see it squandered. Goddammit, an entire generation pumping gas, waiting tables, slaves with white collars. Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy **** we don't need. We're the middle children of history, man; no purpose or place. We have no Great War, no Great Depression. Our Great War is a spiritual war. Our Great Depression is our lives. We've all been raised by television to believe that one day we'd all be millionaires and movie gods and rock stars. But we won't; and we're slowly learning that fact. And we're very, very pissed off.
And it's sad that we quote a movie.

In fact, Western Civilization is crumbling before our eyes and no one is there to stop it because we're busy watching television and movies.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It just back in the days "female and man" understood the concept of "duty" and "work"

Also, BeExcellent said it: "world crisis were common"

So how would you live in the western world knowing:

1) Europe and America is 100millions TOTAL
2) there was no ffridge, no AC, bare electricity
3) if anything in the house broke you were likely too broke to buy à New one or hire help (so you had to repair it manually.. which 99% of modern guys cant do)
4) Toilet paper wasnt mainstream in Europe until the1980
5) Average lifespan was 60years old... if you didnt die in/from

WorldWar1 (20 millions)
Spanish Influenza (50 millions targeting middle aged healthy people
GreatDepression (10 years of economic crisis, megainflation, unemplyment skyhigh)
WorldWar2 (55millions death directly, fall of Europe Empire etc... took à war to solve the great depression)..... all that in 30 years

Than babyboomer... korean war,vietnan war, 70-80 crisis etc...

So how would you feel living in that.... also no tv, no cellphone, no internet, no contraception in pills form etc...

Back in the day, life was goingto impose itself on you eventually.. now not so much. Note: The husband with 1 salary provided for his wife and 5kids

But the basis remain: Control her émotions, have a strong frame, keep improving

PS: Being a provider was Alpha back in the days
 
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In fact, Western Civilization is crumbling before our eyes and no one is there to stop it because we're busy watching television and movies.
I think we'd be in much better shape if people had attention spans long enough to sit through a movie, or even an actual book.

Most people get nervous when their twitter feed gets too crowded.

They see more than a couple hundred words and think, "Wall of text..."

Like actually reading, thinking, and responding would be much to difficult for their fragile little minds.

 

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They had TONS of other stuff they did that nowadays you couldn't get away with. I talked with my grandpa a little bit and by oh boy did they do some crazy ****. They were anything BUT beta lmao.

You're trying seriously hard to invoke a certain way of thinking here, that of the OPPOSITE of what we preach. Why? Why are you here? What is your purpose? Why don't you state that you're a woman too? And what do you GAIN from all of this? Answer me these questions @ThisNThat and maybe I won't be so harsh as to all of your posts.
 

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These were the days before communism, left-wing politics, political correctness and its agenda had a stronghold in America.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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