"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Workplace Hook Ups

WestCoast1492

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I know these can be risky. Anyone have any advice if you want to bang a chick at work.. no strings attached of course.. and ya know no awkwardness...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blinkwatt

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Yeah,I have advice,DON'T DO IT. It happens at my job all the time,everyone knows each other's business and they try to get involved. The only way and only way you can get away with this,is if she is a slut.
 

Scorched

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Wait till you move on to another (better) job...
Then come back... Like get her number when are about to leave...
I've done the work place thing, it sucks ass man... Seriously...
 

Chosen1

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I have advice it's like my good friend always says "don't do it just don't do it."(he yells this out for no reason) I wouldn't do it, I have tried it once, and long story short I'm here. But if you are a true dj go for, it may work out just dont' attach any emotional strings.
 

Delta

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do a search on "delta" if you want to read about the daily, soul crushing nightmare that work has become for me....

i agree, don't do it. even though you're talking super casual now, you might develop feelings and then you are in trouble.

delta
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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