"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Workplace Hook Ups

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WestCoast1492

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I know these can be risky. Anyone have any advice if you want to bang a chick at work.. no strings attached of course.. and ya know no awkwardness...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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blinkwatt

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Yeah,I have advice,DON'T DO IT. It happens at my job all the time,everyone knows each other's business and they try to get involved. The only way and only way you can get away with this,is if she is a slut.
 
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Scorched

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Wait till you move on to another (better) job...
Then come back... Like get her number when are about to leave...
I've done the work place thing, it sucks ass man... Seriously...
 
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Chosen1

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I have advice it's like my good friend always says "don't do it just don't do it."(he yells this out for no reason) I wouldn't do it, I have tried it once, and long story short I'm here. But if you are a true dj go for, it may work out just dont' attach any emotional strings.
 
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Delta

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do a search on "delta" if you want to read about the daily, soul crushing nightmare that work has become for me....

i agree, don't do it. even though you're talking super casual now, you might develop feelings and then you are in trouble.

delta
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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