"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Workplace Hook Ups

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WestCoast1492

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I know these can be risky. Anyone have any advice if you want to bang a chick at work.. no strings attached of course.. and ya know no awkwardness...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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blinkwatt

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Yeah,I have advice,DON'T DO IT. It happens at my job all the time,everyone knows each other's business and they try to get involved. The only way and only way you can get away with this,is if she is a slut.
 
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Scorched

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Wait till you move on to another (better) job...
Then come back... Like get her number when are about to leave...
I've done the work place thing, it sucks ass man... Seriously...
 
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Chosen1

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I have advice it's like my good friend always says "don't do it just don't do it."(he yells this out for no reason) I wouldn't do it, I have tried it once, and long story short I'm here. But if you are a true dj go for, it may work out just dont' attach any emotional strings.
 
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Delta

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do a search on "delta" if you want to read about the daily, soul crushing nightmare that work has become for me....

i agree, don't do it. even though you're talking super casual now, you might develop feelings and then you are in trouble.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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