"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Workouts while in School

ddboswell

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Yo Whats Up!

I got a couple of problems I need help with. First of all I have been lifting weights on and off since I was like 14 years old. I am now 18 and I am about to go to college this year. The fact that I have been lifting weights on and off for the last 4 years means only one thing. That I am starting and then I am quiting after a couple of months or so. My famalies genes allow me to be naturally thick, and I don't have a hard time building muscle at all. The main problem I have is that tied with all of that I still have fat on my body, but recently this summer I started back working out, and running to try to tone down some. I have successfully continued throughout the summer, and even though I haven't seen the pounds leave off the scale I can see in the mirror that I have toned down. My arms are more cut, my waist is smaller. Hey I can even see my two top abs starting to come in. I mean I still have alot of flab on my body, but when I take off my shirt off now I can actually see the potentail that I have. The thing is I hate working out in front of other people. Mainly because I build muscle so easily that I don't have to lift that heavy of weights. People expect for me to be so strong, but I'm really not that strong. I don't even know what my max. on the bench is. This is not the point though, I know I am going to have to suck it up, and work out in the weight room with everyone else or else I am going to once again loose all of my progress. I was wondering how can I start lifting for more power?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DankNuggs

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Don't worry about how heavy the weight is, when your in the gym and see the knuckleheads straining to get 285 up on the bench with horrible form just laugh.

I lift because it makes me feel good, and I like looking cut with my shirt off during the summer...If it were possible to look as jacked as you want to be, by only lifting 1lb. weights each session, would you do it??? I know i would...So screw everything else...Its a good general dj philosophy
 
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