"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Workout to increase stamina/endurance overall?

PumpNightmare

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I run for 15 minutes in the morning before I have breakfest, Tue-Fridays. I also ride my bike to work (stock clerk) for 15 minutes twice a week as well. I also play those "dancing games" (Pump It Up, DDR&ITG) often as well in my free time.
I need advice on what I could do to increase my stamina overall. I'm looking into the option of going to the gym at my collge, but I'm not sure what I should do there. Anything specific I should look into? I'm 6ft, 165lbs, so I'm not really looking into "bulking" or "cutting" up, but I do want to loose body fat and increase my overall stamina to be fit. My main goals are to improve my health over all and have enough endurance for I can play higher level songs in said "dancing games" I play often. I know when doing a search, cardio seems to be frowned around here, but I'm not going for looks, although it is a huge plus.

So, any advice DJs? Much appreciated!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PumpNightmare

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Thanks. Going by this, it looks like I should concentrate a lot on running and sprinting. I started the gym today and did a light 30 minute run which was about 2.5 miles on the treadmill. Plus road my bike all over campus and 30 minutes of DDR. I don't feel sore (yet) so I guess I'll have to push myself harder tomorrow if I feel fine when I wake up. :box: I think I should be fine with my heart rate. It's around 65bpm when resting, so I should be fine. Not below 50 like that chart says, but it can be lowered with time.
 

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below 50 is for endurance athletes, you're not shooting for that so much as you are overall cardiovascular health.

baby steps, man.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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To increase endurance, you are going to need to go on the long haul. 15 minutes cycling is not enough. Make it 3 hours and then your starting to talk, but still many people would still call tat short distance cycleing!

One thing i have noticed increase stamina is sprint training, (for running or cycleing) for example cycle for 45 minutes but instead of going at an evan pace, go very fact fast for a few minutes and then slow down the pace to recover, and then speed up again and repeat. This does a lot of good for your stamina.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Capitol39

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"Cross training" has helped me improve my endurance. I used to just ride the exercise bike at a 750-calories-per-hour pace, riding for about 35 minutes. Then I started cross training on the elliptical trainer for a few weeks, and now I can ride the bike for an hour at about a 800-calories-per-hour pace.
 

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Run a search for "General Physical Preparation" on google. GPP workouts will boost your work capacity and your level of general conditioning. Workouts can be based on bodyweight calisthenics circuits, sled dragging, Medicine Ball throwing, mini strongman circuits and many more ideas.
 
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