"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Workout log + PROGRESS PICS!

Kev07

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Ok, i've been switching up my workout routine around but this is what i'm doing as of now

Sunday: Chest
4 sets 7 reps bench press (135, increments of 5 lbs each set)
2 sets of dips (non weighted i'm weak) til failure
2 sets incline bench, 7 reps (95lbs)
3 sets of cable flies, 9 reps (50 pounds each side)
2 sets decline bench, 7 reps (95 lbs)

Monday: Back
pull up til failure( just 1... :box: )
4 sets, 9 reps, deadlift (135, increments of 5 lbs each set)
4 sets cable rows
2 sets close grip pulldowns
2 sets of far grip pulldowns

Tuesday: Rest

Wednesday: Legs
4 sets squats, 7 reps (115 lbs increments of 5 each set)
3 sets leg curls 8 reps
3 sets leg extensions, 8 reps (i think that's what they are called)
2 sets calf flexors 8 reps

Thursday: Arms/shoulders
3 sets of db curl, 8 reps (35 lbs)
3 sets tricep flexor, 10 reps (50lbs, 2 armed)
4 sets db military press, 9 reps (35 lbs per arm)
4 sets standing bb row, 9 reps (70 lbs)

Friday/Saturday: Rest


After each workout, i do a 25 minute HIIT run on treadmill, except legs day i do it on the ellipticals, on each upperbody day i do decline sit ups with 25 lbs weight

I'm not gona go into my diet, it's very inconsistent, i just know that i eat around 3000-4000 calories a day and probably 200g of protein or so.

here are the pix:

January 26th (note i actually started working out a week earlier):
http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b33/Keve07/Workout Log/Jan26beforepic1.jpg
http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b33/Keve07/Workout Log/Jan26beforepic3.jpg

February 10:
http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b33/Keve07/Workout Log/progress2Feb10.jpg
http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b33/Keve07/Workout Log/progressFeb10.jpg

March 10:
http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b33/Keve07/Workout Log/progressmar10.jpg
http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b33/Keve07/Workout Log/progressmar10pic2.jpg
http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b33/Keve07/Workout Log/progressarmmar10.jpg

(decided to throw in an arm pic :rockon:)

This coming week will be my last week "bulking", then it's cutting time.:box:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dude don't fret that calorie crap and and just eat HEALTHY. Your trying too hard to focus on the stats of what you eat. If you want to lose weight and not slow down your muscle repair process just cut carbs off 5-7 hours before bed and drop the cardio. The amount of cardio you do has to be taking an effect on your recovery.
 

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i do eat healthy, i do cut off carbs 5-7 hours before bed.

i just meant that i can't really give a diet because what i eat is always so different, but it's all good stuff, i try to cut out simple carbs and stick to complex (whole wheat stuff). i also try to eat around 5-6 meals a day.

i don't know about cutting out my cardio, i enjoy my runs in a way, makes me feel slim.

one way or another i'm bulking right now, my bulking ends next sunday
 

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5-7 hours before bed? you don't even need a carb cutoff

you need to bulk for at least 2 years and go on a 3day split
 

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haha I love your simplicity Alex.

Good stuff Kev, keep up the good work

What are your longterm/shortterm goals?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hrmm, i'm going on 8 week bulk/ 8 week cut, in time for this summer, senior year high school beach time that's my short term goal
All this stuff just seems so bodybuilding.com-ish. An 8-week bulk then a 8-week cut? What's the fvcking point? You're gonna spend 8 weeks gaining 6lbs of muscle, then you're gonna go on a 1600 calorie diet and lose it all... Why not just gain muscle by eating+training whilst keeping body fat reasonable?

-shaun
 

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Yeah..Your routine could do with a bit of improvement too :) What's wrong with a 3day split?

-shaun
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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He has nothing to burn, muscle, or fat. Going on a cut would just destroy his metabolism and thyroid. He needs to slowly add food into his diet, stop with the volume routine, cut out the HIIT post-workout and keep at this for a year or two.
 

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I agree with these guys who suggest bulking up first and foremost. Once you start piling on the muscle, and start building good posture and good body proportion, you will hardly notice your puppy fat.

I should add that your dedication is admirable and that's where most people fail. You deserve respect for that, but you are definitely overworking and probably doing more harm than good.
 

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well you can't really tell by the pics, but my stomach is real flabby, i also hate how i can't see much cuts in my arm cause of a big layer of fat around there. then theres the pointy man boobs(went down a lot since i started working out) but i want to get rid of it!

i eat a lot T_T, and maybe i'll just cut out the HIIT and just run a mile after workout? (my mile is around 7:40ish)

or maybe it's just my mindset, because i used to be a fat little kid

when i say i'm going to go on a cutting phase, i'm going to be working out exactly like i would bulking, but i'm going to cut out a LOT more carbs. i'll probably also eat just a tad bit less in general too. will still keep protein high

thanks jariel
 

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Why do you want to RUN after a workout?

You know why your stomach is flabby and you can see no cuts in your arm? YOU HAVE NO MUSCLE. I promise you, you could get down to 4% bodyfat and you'd still see no cuts, because there's nothing TO cut.

Your stomach and manboobs (which you don't have) will disappear when you build some muscle.

You really need to change your mindset bro. Otherwise you'll stay this size forever
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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if you wanna be a runner, run. but if you don't want the runner's look, don't run
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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