"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Workout jounal:The Torture Has Started

Lil Magic

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Well...my first serious stint at the gym since summer started was last night. I went with an old friend who i havent seen i few years put who lives surprisingly close to me. Im in highschool and my friend was kinda the loser in elementary school who everyone used to pick on while i was the fat f*ck. Well anywho, hes frickin ripped now, especially for someone whos only 5'6, and he puts me to shame! I'm 6'2. While i concentrated on getting skinny hes been hitting the gym big time. So now i have to work hard just to avoid looking bad next to him. Talk about motivation...So anyway we did arm. 5 exercises per muscle. with 3sets each and 10 reps. My arms hurt like hell. Well its summer and i have goals to reach but like i said...The torture has started.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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EFFORT

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Make me proud man and start from the post Where to Start
 

Heart Break Kid

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This is great news, you'll grow very fast, you have a good spotter and you can ask him any questions you have. Plus at 6'2 you'll look amazing once you get as ripped as him. :up:
 

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If you view working out and getting fit as torture, I question your resolve.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mrRuckus

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Lil Magic said:
So anyway we did arm. 5 exercises per muscle. with 3sets each and 10 reps. My arms hurt like hell. Well its summer and i have goals to reach but like i said...The torture has started.
What does this tell you?
 
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