"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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workingout during college

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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uuh i see ads for workout equipment with 20-30yr old men on them...

im guessing men still buy workout equipment at that age level since it would have a positive impact on their bodies.
 
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squelchy451 said:
uuh i see ads for workout equipment with 20-30yr old men on them...

im guessing men still buy workout equipment at that age level since it would have a positive impact on their bodies.
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I'm also guessing you'll buy a bowflex after you see a commercial with a ripped guy using it...

"Do you get buff if you workout in college?"
...lazy question man. You'll get buff if you workout hard/eat hard in any situation.

Seriously, do some research.
 
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Yes. It's gonna take 1.5-2 years if you're starting with nothing.

Personally college has been awesome for it because I have plenty of free time and access to a ****ing sweet gym free of charge.
 
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amen to furyguy's statement. This is a fantastic time to do it. Go lift some heavy ****.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i can understand this guys dilemma, what he's really asking is "how do i get asian buff with top ramen?"
 
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LOL

I do some jump rope almost every night before going to bed (helps me sleep)

Is there any benefit to having weighted jump ropes? Mine are just plain plastic ones.

Thanks
 
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