"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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workingout during college

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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squelchy451

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uuh i see ads for workout equipment with 20-30yr old men on them...

im guessing men still buy workout equipment at that age level since it would have a positive impact on their bodies.
 

Triple T

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squelchy451 said:
uuh i see ads for workout equipment with 20-30yr old men on them...

im guessing men still buy workout equipment at that age level since it would have a positive impact on their bodies.
I'm also guessing you'll buy a bowflex after you see a commercial with a ripped guy using it...

"Do you get buff if you workout in college?"
...lazy question man. You'll get buff if you workout hard/eat hard in any situation.

Seriously, do some research.
 

Furyguy

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A better place, a better time.
Yes. It's gonna take 1.5-2 years if you're starting with nothing.

Personally college has been awesome for it because I have plenty of free time and access to a ****ing sweet gym free of charge.
 

dispatch

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amen to furyguy's statement. This is a fantastic time to do it. Go lift some heavy ****.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Create Reality

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i can understand this guys dilemma, what he's really asking is "how do i get asian buff with top ramen?"
 

squelchy451

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LOL

I do some jump rope almost every night before going to bed (helps me sleep)

Is there any benefit to having weighted jump ropes? Mine are just plain plastic ones.

Thanks
 
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