"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Working security at festivals/Shady companys

Rainman4707

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Work in security. Received a phonecall last Sunday night from a security company id applied for.
He said that the company needed to test me out, so he offered me a five day festival in Leeds. During convo, i told him that i drove, so he said "oh great, you can pick up another couple of our guys on way down to leeds"
I'm working for another security company, so told him that i'm helping them them out over next few weeks, so would'nt be able to do it, but we both agreed that i will give him a ring in future if i'm available.

Just wondering what you guys think or if you have had any experience in being "offered a test out as he put it" or if you have had any experience working as security at festivals?? Guy who lives opposite me told me he worked for a company doing festivals. They treat him poorly. Sacked him after three month so that they could get a more keener, fresher face in. His gf was always calling his boss a tosse*.
I know there are some shady companys out there that treat their employees like dogs.

I would only be helping the company out part time now and then, just wondering if they are trustworthy. What concerns me is...If i decide to do this "trial five day job as he puts it" if i spend five days down there working, will i definitley get paid?

There is a good chance i wont even end up going because of my commitment to current job, but if i do the above are questions i will ask him
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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