"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Working out - The Diesel Program

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I just recently started the bulking up diet and weight training program by Diesel.

When I work out I have been really pushing myself to the max, so much so that on the next day my targetted muscles have hurted and ached.

Yesterday I worked my legs with squats and other exercises, and can hardly walk today. My ass even hurts! Is this normal? Am I taking this too extremely?

I do short workouts with the reccomended reps, one area a week, and I'm now on my rest period.

By the way, is low fat yogurt supposed to taste this bad? :eek:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DIESEL

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Originally posted by don_juan_20
I just recently started the bulking up diet and weight training program by Diesel.

When I work out I have been really pushing myself to the max, so much so that on the next day my targetted muscles have hurted and ached.

Yesterday I worked my legs with squats and other exercises, and can hardly walk today. My ass even hurts! Is this normal? Am I taking this too extremely?

Nope. Balls to the wall, that's how you're supposed to do it. It'll all be worth it in a couple of weeks once you start seeing the visible results, not to mention the increase in strength...

oh yeah.. you won't be as sore after a couple of weeks. bonus!

By the way, is low fat yogurt supposed to taste this bad? :eek:
Yeah. That's why I don't eat it! :D

Keep up the good work!

D
 

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If you are just starting, it is going to hurt a lot. Your body responds by letting the muscles become more pliable after a couple months.

You should always have some muscle soreness but it becomes something that is not a constant headache. Sort of like a background noise you can tune out. Stretching post workout and before bed will help a lot.

Way to go on the legs. Legs days are more important than upper body days IMO. You overload your biggest muscles and get your body overcompensating with muscle building hormones. I find that if I don't do a good leg workout, I get nothing out of upper body work the week after.

Lowfat yogurt sucks.
 

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Originally posted by don_juan_20
I just recently started the bulking up diet and weight training program by Diesel.

When I work out I have been really pushing myself to the max, so much so that on the next day my targetted muscles have hurted and ached.

Yesterday I worked my legs with squats and other exercises, and can hardly walk today. My ass even hurts! Is this normal? Am I taking this too extremely?

I do short workouts with the reccomended reps, one area a week, and I'm now on my rest period.

By the way, is low fat yogurt supposed to taste this bad? :eek:
dont stop working out hard. if you stop, youll turn into a poseur.
 

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Originally posted by don_juan_20
I just recently started the bulking up diet and weight training program by Diesel.

When I work out I have been really pushing myself to the max, so much so that on the next day my targetted muscles have hurted and ached.

Yesterday I worked my legs with squats and other exercises, and can hardly walk today. My ass even hurts! Is this normal? Am I taking this too extremely?

I do short workouts with the reccomended reps, one area a week, and I'm now on my rest period.

By the way, is low fat yogurt supposed to taste this bad? :eek:
dont stop working out hard. if you stop, youll turn into a poseur. noone likes poseurs.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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