"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Working out - The Diesel Program

don_juan_20

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I just recently started the bulking up diet and weight training program by Diesel.

When I work out I have been really pushing myself to the max, so much so that on the next day my targetted muscles have hurted and ached.

Yesterday I worked my legs with squats and other exercises, and can hardly walk today. My ass even hurts! Is this normal? Am I taking this too extremely?

I do short workouts with the reccomended reps, one area a week, and I'm now on my rest period.

By the way, is low fat yogurt supposed to taste this bad? :eek:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DIESEL

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Originally posted by don_juan_20
I just recently started the bulking up diet and weight training program by Diesel.

When I work out I have been really pushing myself to the max, so much so that on the next day my targetted muscles have hurted and ached.

Yesterday I worked my legs with squats and other exercises, and can hardly walk today. My ass even hurts! Is this normal? Am I taking this too extremely?

Nope. Balls to the wall, that's how you're supposed to do it. It'll all be worth it in a couple of weeks once you start seeing the visible results, not to mention the increase in strength...

oh yeah.. you won't be as sore after a couple of weeks. bonus!

By the way, is low fat yogurt supposed to taste this bad? :eek:
Yeah. That's why I don't eat it! :D

Keep up the good work!

D
 

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If you are just starting, it is going to hurt a lot. Your body responds by letting the muscles become more pliable after a couple months.

You should always have some muscle soreness but it becomes something that is not a constant headache. Sort of like a background noise you can tune out. Stretching post workout and before bed will help a lot.

Way to go on the legs. Legs days are more important than upper body days IMO. You overload your biggest muscles and get your body overcompensating with muscle building hormones. I find that if I don't do a good leg workout, I get nothing out of upper body work the week after.

Lowfat yogurt sucks.
 

WORKEROUTER

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Originally posted by don_juan_20
I just recently started the bulking up diet and weight training program by Diesel.

When I work out I have been really pushing myself to the max, so much so that on the next day my targetted muscles have hurted and ached.

Yesterday I worked my legs with squats and other exercises, and can hardly walk today. My ass even hurts! Is this normal? Am I taking this too extremely?

I do short workouts with the reccomended reps, one area a week, and I'm now on my rest period.

By the way, is low fat yogurt supposed to taste this bad? :eek:
dont stop working out hard. if you stop, youll turn into a poseur.
 

WORKEROUTER

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Originally posted by don_juan_20
I just recently started the bulking up diet and weight training program by Diesel.

When I work out I have been really pushing myself to the max, so much so that on the next day my targetted muscles have hurted and ached.

Yesterday I worked my legs with squats and other exercises, and can hardly walk today. My ass even hurts! Is this normal? Am I taking this too extremely?

I do short workouts with the reccomended reps, one area a week, and I'm now on my rest period.

By the way, is low fat yogurt supposed to taste this bad? :eek:
dont stop working out hard. if you stop, youll turn into a poseur. noone likes poseurs.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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