"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Working out everyday with no fatigue... something seems wrong???

JoeSchmoe05

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For the last two weeks I have been working out everyday for an hour after coming home from work, usually training the same muscle groups (although I vary the workout a little). I usually end up doing both upper and lower body, and I do my best to fatigue each muscle group completely until I can no longer do any more reps. Yet, I find the next day I can do it all over again. This somehow seems wrong... each muscle group should only be trained 3 times a week yet I find myself able to do it all 7 days, without ill effect.

Could I not be pushing myself hard enough? Should I still back off to 3 days a week?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MindOverMatter

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Your body is designed that after you physically exert it, it will half-recover by the next day, and allow you to work it out again.

However that doesn't mean that you will grow. In order to grow, muscles need time to repair. By putting them to use the very next day, and not giving them any rest, they don't get that time.
 

Warboss Alex

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Your body is designed that after you physically exert it, it will half-recover by the next day, and allow you to work it out again.

However that doesn't mean that you will grow. In order to grow, muscles need time to repair. By putting them to use the very next day, and not giving them any rest, they don't get that time.
As above. Muscles only grow after they've fully recovered.

And if you're not sore or anything the next day, I doubt you're training with the intensity you COULD be training at .. (soreness does vary from person to person however)
 

onelife

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just a warning, up untill two days ago i was training hard 6 days a week and am now bedridden with the flu which means at least 4 days off.
go to hard and you will **** your immune system.
 

vanwilder

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ffs soreness does not mean you had a good workout. and dont work everyting out daily. you just keep re ripping your muscle without time to heal it.

each muscle has a certain time it needs to heal. calves(24 hours)taking the least time and lower back taking the most(72 hours).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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