"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Working out as a teen

seloifter

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Quote from "Body for Life" by Bill Phillips

"Q: Should my teenage boys start this Program?


A: The Body-for-LIFE Program is intended for healthy adults - generally those over teh age of 18.

I do not bleieve young teens - ages 13 to 15 - should train with weights. At that age, I recommend calisthenics, like jumping jacks, push-ups, pull-ups, sit-ups, and running - the type of activity I used to do when I was that age.

Sixteen- and 17-year-olds can do the exercises described in this book, but their aim should be to conduct 15 to 25 repetitions per set, and using the Intensity Index, they should never exceed a level 7 effort [the intensity index is 1-10, where 1 is sitting on the couch, and 10 is where the earth is shaking and someone could offer you a million dollars to do one more rep and you couldn't do it]. You see, during puberty, teh body is so primed for growth that low-intensity resistance exercise creates results. But, during puberty, teh bones are still growing, and strenuous resistance exercise may interfere with bone grwoth; thus, teenagers should not begin working out intensely with weights until they have completely "matured" physically. Typically that's around age 18.

In terms of nutrition, I blieve teenagers should develop the habit of eating frequent, high-nutrient, protein - and carbohyidrate-containing means. However, fast-growing teenagers should not restrict calories - as long as the food is of good quality (chicken, potatoes, rice, fruit, vegetables, milk), they should eat often and plentifully.

As for teens and supplements, when something's working right, why mess with it? So when kids ask me whether they should use creatine or whatever, I say forget it. Invest in a good healthy diet. Eat the right foods six times a day. Avoid teh wrong foods. And drink alot of water."

Well, the guy is pretty knowledgeable about exercise, but my question is, what are your views on teens and exercise? Is he right?
Your comments?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DIESEL

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Yeah, I would say he's on point... especially about 15 year olds obsessed with their max bench press and how big their biceps are..

I didn't start lifting til I was 17, and I figured I didn't really get a fukkin' clue as to proper training and nutrition til I stopped reading the "magazines" when I was 19.

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You see, during puberty, teh body is so primed for growth that low-intensity resistance exercise creates results.
Sure you can get some results, but the most muscular high schoolers are the ones that lift heavy.

But, during puberty, teh bones are still growing, and strenuous resistance exercise may interfere with bone grwoth; thus, teenagers should not begin working out intensely with weights until they have completely "matured" physically. Typically that's around age 18.
I'd like to see evidence that weightlifting interferes with bone growth.
 

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Working out PROPERLY will not interfere with growth, and does not stunt your growth. Its all a myth...

The only way to do it wrong is if you do something stupid, and hurt a growth plate, thatll seriously f*ck you up. But thats rare if yo're not screwing around when working out.
 

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Originally posted by sonick182
Working out PROPERLY will not interfere with growth, and does not stunt your growth. Its all a myth...

The only way to do it wrong is if you do something stupid, and hurt a growth plate, thatll seriously f*ck you up. But thats rare if yo're not screwing around when working out.
amen!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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