"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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working on being more social

suaveplayer

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hey guys,
Im currently working on being more social in school. I seem to connect with ppl well enough, but it only happens in school (basically when ppl are "forced together"). i cant get enough social interaction outside of classes. I know a lot of close friends and girls in classes and we have a great time but it seems to always end at that. and this applies to lunches too. sometimes i dont have ppl to hang out with at lunch, but if you would take every guy or girl that ive talked to earlier that day that would be willing to lunch with me, there would be a long line.

basically, how do i take that next step. any similar experiences? suggestions?

i hope i made sense.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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rushing dude 123

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yeh like casually said, take that extra step outside class and people will just b drawn to u. Also be friend teachers, gate guy, receptionists and libarian. Will also come in handy if u need stuff and got connections with school. I would always get out of lessons (although that shouldn't b approved on) i did not like by just befriending tech dude with halo talk lol, saying i am helping him out when i just played computer games with my friends.
 
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