"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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working on being more social

suaveplayer

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hey guys,
Im currently working on being more social in school. I seem to connect with ppl well enough, but it only happens in school (basically when ppl are "forced together"). i cant get enough social interaction outside of classes. I know a lot of close friends and girls in classes and we have a great time but it seems to always end at that. and this applies to lunches too. sometimes i dont have ppl to hang out with at lunch, but if you would take every guy or girl that ive talked to earlier that day that would be willing to lunch with me, there would be a long line.

basically, how do i take that next step. any similar experiences? suggestions?

i hope i made sense.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rushing dude 123

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yeh like casually said, take that extra step outside class and people will just b drawn to u. Also be friend teachers, gate guy, receptionists and libarian. Will also come in handy if u need stuff and got connections with school. I would always get out of lessons (although that shouldn't b approved on) i did not like by just befriending tech dude with halo talk lol, saying i am helping him out when i just played computer games with my friends.
 
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