Working on becoming a dangerous man, people respect and fear

[jhonny9546]

I'm a very friendly, open, cheerful, charismatic guy, and if there's one thing I can't do completely well, it's making a switch, to make people understand that they have to respect me, or fear me.

You know when you're afraid to do something because that person might do something dangerous?
Exactly: dangerous.
But at the same time, not dangerous.
Do you understand what I mean?


I think men should have their weapons to be dangerous against other men:

a) to be able to defend themselves physically
b) to be able to defend themselves verbally
c) to gain respect with just a look or a behavior (like absence)


If there is one thing I've learn during those years, is that people only fear and respect what they care, but at the same time, what they fear.



In fact, you can see, for example, how women will respect a beta man and a criminal, even if he's their husband, equally.
But the point is, they won't respect the beta man, while they will respect the criminal, because they know he can do something crazy to their children, their finances, and their own life.

The same thing happens with men who, when they meet a dangerous guy, decide not to "play" with him, for fear he'll do "something."

Well, I think that's the kind of man I'd like to become, and the kind of man we should all aspire to be.
It's just a feeling people have about us, but our qualities—kindness, cheerfulness, openness, and sociability—should still remain.

 

[Gamisch]

I'm a very friendly, open, cheerful, charismatic guy, and if there's one thing I can't do completely well, it's making a switch, to make people understand that they have to respect me, or fear me.

You know when you're afraid to do something because that person might do something dangerous?
Exactly: dangerous.
But at the same time, not dangerous.
Do you understand what I mean?


I think men should have their weapons to be dangerous against other men:

a) to be able to defend themselves physically
b) to be able to defend themselves verbally
c) to gain respect with just a look or a behavior (like absence)


If there is one thing I've learn during those years, is that people only fear and respect what they care, but at the same time, what they fear.



In fact, you can see, for example, how women will respect a beta man and a criminal, even if he's their husband, equally.
But the point is, they won't respect the beta man, while they will respect the criminal, because they know he can do something crazy to their children, their finances, and their own life.

The same thing happens with men who, when they meet a dangerous guy, decide not to "play" with him, for fear he'll do "something."

Well, I think that's the kind of man I'd like to become, and the kind of man we should all aspire to be.
It's just a feeling people have about us, but our qualities—kindness, cheerfulness, openness, and sociability—should still remain.

Hmm...

The problem with " being dangerous " is you get "one life" every time when you play. Most sane people will avoid such a man because they wanna continue living . This "honeybadger approach " is a dangerous game, and can easily go the wrong way for the protagonist of the story...

The most dangerous person is the man who fights for righteousness. That has to be the ONLY thing you'll die for ( and still its suspect and subjective) There are way too many idiots to have a mentality of trying to intimidate people. Because, as we level up and reach great highs, our ( new) enemies and haters will have less and less too lose than us. Would you fight a crackhead who might stab you? Or a street guy who doesn't mind doing time? ANY phase of your life 20, 30, 40 or 50 will be vital to make the progress you need! No time to do time!

2 quotes:

1.I might be able to defeat another man with fisticuffs, but what about the legal consequences? Going to jail, getting fined and / or doing community service just because of my ego???

2.And secondly: even Joe Frazier (perhaps hardest hitting boxer ever) even said " I fear every man who got 2 hands".

 

[BaronOfHair]

I'm a very friendly, open, cheerful, charismatic guy, and if there's one thing I can't do completely well, it's making a switch, to make people understand that they have to respect me, or fear me.

You know when you're afraid to do something because that person might do something dangerous?
Exactly: dangerous.
But at the same time, not dangerous.
Do you understand what I mean?


I think men should have their weapons to be dangerous against other men:

a) to be able to defend themselves physically
b) to be able to defend themselves verbally
c) to gain respect with just a look or a behavior (like absence)


If there is one thing I've learn during those years, is that people only fear and respect what they care, but at the same time, what they fear.



In fact, you can see, for example, how women will respect a beta man and a criminal, even if he's their husband, equally.
But the point is, they won't respect the beta man, while they will respect the criminal, because they know he can do something crazy to their children, their finances, and their own life.

The same thing happens with men who, when they meet a dangerous guy, decide not to "play" with him, for fear he'll do "something."

Well, I think that's the kind of man I'd like to become, and the kind of man we should all aspire to be.
It's just a feeling people have about us, but our qualities—kindness, cheerfulness, openness, and sociability—should still remain.

There's truth to what you're saying. A man who exudes lethality alongside charm

gets the panties soaking

 

[Desdinova]

I'm a very friendly, open, cheerful, charismatic guy, and if there's one thing I can't do completely well, it's making a switch, to make people understand that they have to respect me, or fear me.

You know when you're afraid to do something because that person might do something dangerous?
Exactly: dangerous.
But at the same time, not dangerous.
Do you understand what I mean?

You can do that just by standing your ground. People find me to be a nice fun interesting guy... until they try to take advantage of me. Then they quickly learn that I'm not Mr. Nice Doormat Guy. You can also relay that by putting others in their place when they're saying something dumb or getting carried away with something. Respect is earned and people will fear you once they learn that you don't tolerate disrespect.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

So essentially a fraud?