"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Working my magic on 2nd shift?

theunflushables

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So, I just accepted a new job. The only problem with this job is its from 3.30 to midnight. I've never worked a second shift job before, so here is my question?

Is this going to effect meeting women, being I'll be working while everyone is having fun? If so, any suggestions where to meet and date while I'm working late?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WhitePimp

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What days do you work?

I work my job usually from 5-10:30 PM Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. They're pretty much the gayest fvcking hours ever, but I'm usually good to hang out at 10:30 so if the girl is up for it, game ON! The only difficult part for me is location, as I'm a HUGE outdoor type of guy and hanging outside at 11 PM with a chick is a little on the creepy side (unless she gets turned on by mystery in which case, YEAH!!!!)

But yes, getting girls to go out that late is VERY hard to do. You're essentially stuck with bar type atmospheres, unless you can get solid work done before 3:30 and finish up after midnight. That sounds like a B&N shift goddamit! :eek:
 

theunflushables

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Its a M-F which gives me the weekend, but I prefer meeting during the middle of the week, less chance of prior commitment.

Yeah, especially with you being from Jersey, she'd probably think she was going to get whacked if you took her to the woods at 11 at night.
 
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