martoslo
Don Juan
We all know girls who work in bars and similar public places gets hit on a lot, but what about the guys who work there? Does guys who work in bars get any extras through their work?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
working in a bar
- Thread starter martoslo
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
Probably. I'll let you know in couple of weeks. I got the corse complete, and as soon as my tonsillitis goes away i'm looking for a part time job as a bartender in the afternoon (yes, on top of the daytime job. I have a feeling I'll burn out in a week.
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)martoslo
Don Juan
Re: Re: working in a bar
Sounds good, I am starting to work as a bartender next week, just hearing if anyone have any good experiences with it.
GodsGiftToFatBirds
Senior Don Juan
This doesn't necessarily make it easy when you're working. I work in a club myself. In the situation you describe it can be quite frustrating as i can often get chatting to a girl, have her flirting quite heavily with me and know that i could easily get into her and possibly fvck her if i was out, not working.
Then have to go get on with my work and later watch them find some other guy who is available to give them what they want that night.
Sure, you can number close them but 90% of the girls who flirt with you are either taken or looking for summat that night.
It'd probably be different tho in a pub/bar rather than a nightclub where the birds are pissed up and on the pull.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.