Working full time but want to work in nightlife too, doable and fun?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

ThePlayedList

Banned

May 28, 2017

After reading @cola post about it, I realize I want to do this and I am hoping cool guys like him and @RangerMIke answer this thread instead of older losers who will whine about how horrible nightlife is.

I work full time but have a lot of energy left over for the weekends, want to work in nightlife part time and am wondering if bars and nightclubs would hire someone like me or if they want people who don't actually have a job.

Any thoughts?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.